Sex After Pregnancy 

Boosting Yourself For Sex After Pregnancy

Most women tend to get tired after childbirth and do not show any interest post childbirth. Though there are some exceptions, most women feel too tired after delivering a kid and do not want to have sex immediately on returning home. This tends to dissatisfy their partners. They tend to think that their wife does not love them anymore or that they have lost interest in sex after pregnancy. You should not be worried about these things since they are a passing phase and will soon disappear. Rather, you should take this as a blessing in disguise. A woman undergoes lots of physical and mental strain during pregnancy.

The relief she gets upon childbirth leads to tiredness and does not leave her with any energy to perform sex. Apart from this they love to spend more time with their kid and are more interested in their antics to be attracted towards sex. Not having sex after pregnancy also helps in another way. The body finds sufficient time to cure itself. Abrasions occur on the women’s vagina during childbirth and performing sex during those times might cause the abrasions to increase.

Even the doctors suggest that women should avoid sex for 5-6 weeks post childbirth. This is the best opportunity to know your partner even more. Tease him by playing with his private parts and also allow him to stimulate you. Over a period of some days, you will find the urge of sex returning back. You should exercise caution when having sex after pregnancy. There are many factors you should be aware of. The same sex position that you enjoyed previously might not be good for your health at the moment. Opt in for some other positions that does not apply pressure on your tummy.

When you go in for sex after a baby, you might experience pains in the vagina. This is due to drying up of the vaginal walls, especially if you are breastfeeding the baby. There are different types of vaginal lubricating gels and creams available in the market and you should use them to relieve yourself of this predicament. A caring partner who fondles your private part along with cuddling and kissing you simultaneously also helps. You should also ensure that there is no pressure in the sore areas of your vagina when your partner is penetrating you.

You should take the initiative of telling him what feels good and what does not. While enjoying sex after childbirth, try to focus your thoughts on lovemaking and on nothing else. Try not to get distracted by other things like diapers and laundry when performing sex after a baby. If you are experiencing any pains or other problems, do not hesitate to consult the doctor. There might be minor issues which can be easily corrected at an early stage. If you have already mothered a number of kids, your vaginal walls will become relaxed. There is no need to get worried about this, since it is natural.

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